{"id":1181,"date":"2009-11-10T22:29:10","date_gmt":"2009-11-10T14:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.Sun-Q.cn\/the-art-of-communication.html"},"modified":"2009-11-10T22:29:10","modified_gmt":"2009-11-10T14:29:10","slug":"the-art-of-communication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daibei.info\/index.php\/2009\/11\/10\/the-art-of-communication\/","title":{"rendered":"\u6c9f\u901a\u7684\u827a\u672f"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u4eca\u5929\u5728\u624b\u673a\u62a5\u4e0a\u770b\u5230\u4e86\u4e00\u5219\u7b11\u8bdd\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5374\u8ba9\u4eba\u611f\u89e6\u9887\u6df1\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"WORD-SPACING: 0px; FONT: medium Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; COLOR: rgb(0,0,0); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; WHITE-SPACE: normal; LETTER-SPACING: normal; BORDER-COLLAPSE: separate; orphans: 2; widows: 2; webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; 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